Sunday, November 16, 2014

STORIES OF VOLUNTEERISM




Its paradoxical that the idea of living a long life appeals everyone but the idea of getting old doesn't seem appealing. 


In order to celebrate Dashain differently,  a year back I went to Pashupati Old-age home with food packets.Echoing hymns, fragrance from incense sticks and the the tune of tingling bells were lurking around the Pashupati Area. 


No sooner had I entered  the old- age home, the scenario completely changed. Calm and peaceful,an old women covered by a shawl was basking in the sun. Some old men were walking around sharing stories of their past. Some were constantly looking at the door maybe their eyes were longing for someone.

I assume that's exactly what you do after being abandoned.
As the old age home was prepared for our arrival, the donation program commenced. I along with other people who had come for the same purpose, started distributing the food packets. They took it, blessed and smiled .

Their heart melting smiles were way better than that of the miss worlds' till date. I had abundant time so I started talking. Some were left by their children right in front of the old age home never to return. While some were rescued from the road. Some childless old people came there on their own while some were brought by their own children but came to visit regularly. Some shared their anecdotes and experiences while some were teary eyed and there eyes spoke it all.

 My hands were definitely empty but I left with happy heart.   :)




STORY 2




Today it is not HIV, Ebola, or Encephalitis that kills human being
but it is the feeling of being unwanted. 

Physical diseases can be cured but only love can heal loneliness,
despair, and hopelessness.

After the principal showed green signal, I headed towards the
classroom.

"Good morning Missssssss" the class welcomed me.

"Sit down" I said. I noticed all of them for a while. 

Some students were busy looking outside the window while some
were busy biting their nails, some were busy curling their hair strands
while some were busy patting their cheeks for no apparent reason.

ल अब सबैजाना ध्यान देउ यता I started my class.

I never thought slapping and thrashing would help because slaps and thrashes never worked on me when I was a child and developing a sense of fear in the young minds was not good option either. I guess that created a strong bond between me and them. The faces
which used to be disappointed before had wonderful and warm smiles.

Talking about my work I taught anything and everything to anyone and
everyone. One day some girls insisted me to stay longer and in the
sun we shared our stories.

Some were rescued from the red light areas of India, Some were about to be sold and were brought from border areas, some had ran away from their houses as their fathers were ready to marry them to unknown person for some cartoons of alcohol, some couldn't bear incest and some couldn't bear physical and mental torture by their step parents.There were many children, many more stories, much more pain and a really dark history.

After they unfolded their past I felt I was lucky and fortunate enough to own such a beautiful life. I had made no big difference but yes the students have raised from X to X+1.

I volunteered and taught there for four months and what did I get in return? I learnt that life has given me a lot and their smiles taught me that problems do not weaken u but makes u tough for the toughest times.





STORY 3





5 minutes of your time +350 ml of your blood= 1 life saved

From the above line itself you may have understood yourself what my third activity is, Gotcha!Exactly what you assumed my third act is related to blood donation. Almost 12 women stepped out from the Red Cross vehicle with heavy boxes in Golden Gate International College which was the venue for the blood donation.

Male volunteers were busy taking desks and benches to the ground and simultaneously were looking if the girls were noticing their hard work or not while the girls were busy carrying cartoons of real juice and fruits for the blood donors. After all the tables, desks, food items, bags were set in their respective places the donation formally started. The nurses sent the donors after checking their fitness. The flow of students was very thin in the initial phase which had already disheartened the volunteers but after some board members teachers and founders donated their blood the flow became massive. Regardless of the scorching heat without any hesitation the volunteers did their work with full energy. 

Talking about the donors their contribution was a vital one. You could actually see all kind of people there lean, thin, fat, chubby, fair, those with big black plastic framed power spectacles, those who were busy playing candy crush and those who were asking for free juice again. I as a coordinator coordinated the program brought food items when they seemed less handled the guests helped the volunteers to handle the flow and encouraged students to try once. When the clock struck 2:00 the nurses stopped taking donors and that was an official end of the program. 

With huge media coverage and smooth work our program had become grand success and after knowing that approximately 400 individuals had donated their blood our happiness knew no bounds. 

We also achieved the award of” highest blood donating organization of the year” .Our one initiation had saved approximately 400 lives and we actually felt like saviors. After the program ended I remembered what one of my teachers had said in the class “tears of a mother can’t save a child but your blood can.”  J









Sunday, May 18, 2014

Follow Your Dreams




    




Love what you do and do what you love.Don’t listen to anyone else. Listen to what the inner core of your heart says! It’s said that when you want something wholeheartedly then the whole world conspires it to make it yours. You want to be remembered well everyone does. And yes we remember those who follow their dreams.When I was kid my parents told me that this world was a beautiful place to live in.When I was a kid they taught me to listen what my heart says, they taught me to follow my dreams. I believed and started to listen to my heart. When I gradually grew up I knew the world wasn't as beautiful as it seemed. Whenever I tried to listen what my heart somehow people offended it. My parents aspired me to be a doctor but I wanted something else. I had to go against my parents decision. People said that career in humanities would not pay me.But my inner satisfaction was much more bigger to me than my money. I don’t want a day to come in my future where I will regret for not following my dreams . I wanted to follow my dreams because I wanted to give meaning to everything I do I wanted to smile  more I wanted to become inspiration to those around me. If Steve jobs hadn't dropped out of his college and hadn't followed his dreams then we would have never seen such an innovative person in the field of technology.One day our life will flash before our eyes .Make sure its worth watching.I am not saying its going to be easy but yes its going to be worth it. If you don’t follow your dream then you crush your dreams.Eventually you will stop dreaming altogether. so always listen to what your heart says.








Friday, April 25, 2014

An unforgettable journey...









All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware. The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page. That’s what I exactly feel when I walk down the memory lane. I still remember the day when I stepped in Bangladesh airport with my three other friends (Kiran Ghimire, Kusum Adhikari and Nischal). Unknown people, unknown place, hot air everywhere and a totally different environment. But when we reached the resort the scenario had totally changed almost 200 leos in a place who were ready to roar. Its then when the actual fun began. Opening ceremony, DJ party, competitions, sightseeing, stalls, camp fire, swimming in the sea, evening walk in the beach and many more. Seems like a holiday package right? But the story is not over yet. There I learned what actually leoism was about what lionism was about what were the actual responsibilities and the motive behind being a leo and what we could do. They presented how their actions had brought a change in their places and what we could do as well.With Alexis Vincent Gomes as our honorary guest we exchanged our experiences and pledged that serving people wholeheartedly would be the target of our life. All travel has its advantages. If the passenger visits better countries, he may learn to improve his own. And if fortune carries him to worse, he may learn to enjoy it. There were some instances when I really wanted to return back to Nepal there were times when I never wanted to go back. There were times when the development of Bangladesh fascinated me a lot  and there were times the poverty misery and pathetic situation of the women there pinched me. There were instances when I felt that Karl Marx was right when he stated that there will always be difference between the have and have not’s but when I saw the activities of leo there bringing changes in the lives of many individuals I also realized that one initiation or one step can make a difference collective force can bring a change and one day the world will surely be a beautiful place to live in.The multiple youth camp in Gazipur taught me a lot so right here and right now let’s pledge that wherever we go we will always have leoism in our blood and promote feeling of fellowship and service.