Thursday, March 8, 2018

If you are 90s Nepali kid you can totally relate


No introduction or description. Here are 40 things you can totally relate if you are from 90s like me.

1) Saturdays and Moomin





2) Dhyakk





If only the boxes were this clean!

3) Damaru wala bhaiya
I still remember as soon as I heard him, I would collect all my old plastic shoes to exchange with new ear rings or toys. 

4) Slam books




Remember exchanging slam books with your friends when you were about to leave school? 

5) Mario and video games




The music of mario "tiding ting tiding ting ting!" felt so good!

6) 10 Rs ko ek plate paanipuri



"HAMRO JAMAANA MA 10 RUPYAKO 12 OTA PAANIPURI AAUTHYO" we in future

7) Butterfly butterfly which color do you like in your happy birthday




Guilty of doing this and running everywhere!

8) O mina captain cena haarera gayo mara dona



9) Orange ball and black ball



Did anyone keep it in the bottom of the jar thinking it would turn out to be orange juice?

10) Collecting tazos in Uncle chips


Guilty!
25 rupees per packet

11) Cartoon network, pogo and nickelodeon




Art attack, Tom and jerry, powerpuff girls, pokemon, Scooby dooby doo, ostwald and what not 

12) Floppy disks




Euta floppy disk ko value timile k bujtheu bacchhaas and baabus!


13) Slap bracelets



Hitting people without any reason and using it for an excuse! hehaha!

14) Thinararowt biscuit 


Thin ararrararr what???? I still don't know how to spell it right!

15) Hurray chowchow and shaka laka boom boom ko magic pencil



Expecting food items to pop out of notebook (never ever happened)

16) Butterfly hair clips


Every time I went to a birthday party everyone's heads including mine looked like a colorful orchard!

17) Pranks at its best (chewing gum electric shock)

18)Dial up internet



Pida hajur Pida!


19)Fukka Horlicks



Horlics chaatnu was much better than mixing it with milk and drinking it.

20) Name place thing



Your teacher is absent? Let's play name place animal thing!


21) Glitter pens and project work
22) If you haven't used wooden cardboard and cheated in your exams what did you do?

23) Nokias first phone



If you owned this! You were richer than Binod Choudary! :D

24) Beyblades


If you didn’t own them, you were not a part of the bachha gang. 

25) Photo negatives



Photo dhulaaunuko pida, Facebook generation lai k tha!

26)Trading pokemon cards and wrestling cards




Business ta ragat mai cha ni hajur!


27) Dhungri in five fingers


28) Glowing adhesive stars


Building a ceiling or roof yet wanting to look at stars! Irony!


29) Colorful wordart



Aren't you guilty of using these to score better?

30) Chelpark and camel ink



OYE! Ek drop ink de na bholi dinchu k kassam! Please kya!

31) Juice wala chocolate





32) Pil pil balne jutta

Jumping every time so that your shoes would light up 

33) Cigarette wala chewing gum


Acting like a rebel and flaunting that cigarette and opening it as soon as your parents came to prevent yourself from slaps!

34) Carrying that heavy tumlets everywhere you went


35) Pulling Lacto candy’s wrapper




36) Laamo tiffinko dabba


I don't know about you but my mom sent me the longest one with dhaal, bhaat, tarkaari, achaar and falfull and I would be eating untill the bell wrang!

37) Rangibichangi name tags

38) Watching kasauti zindagi ki even if you liked or not




39) Deception! 

Before



After




40) Tattoos




Remember how many chewing gums did we buy just to get these tattoos? And remember how dirty did they look at the end but we still went to the shopkeeper to get more of them?
Remember you asking some of them for free? You didn't? Well, I did!

(Additional)

Intu Mintu londonma, chungi, guchha








Friday, January 26, 2018

Review on Padmaavat


Since I posted that I watched Padmaavat yesterday many of my friends have asked if the movie is worth it or not so here’s my take on this movie -It’s a beautiful movie but not a perfect one and it’s definitely worth a watch. Self-admitting that movie is based on fiction, Bhansali has kept himself on a safe side. Whether the protesters regard it to be fabricated, manipulated, tampered, beautified or airbrushed, I loved the plot of the story.

With Deepika Padukone, Ranveer Singh, Shahid Kapoor and Aditi Rao Haidari as major characters, Padmavat basically rotates around the attempt of Allaudin Khilji (Ranveer Singh) to pursue Padmavati (Deepika Padukone) and Ratan Rawal’s (Shahid Kapoor’s) efforts for not letting this happen. One of the reasons I have always admired the works of Bhansali is because he presents the female character to be bold, fierce and witty. 




Radiant with beauty and enriched with valour, Deepika is presented to be smarter, wiser and learned than the Raajguru and more strategic than her husband when it comes on anticipating enemy’s moves. She possesses political acumen, takes decisions even if it means going against her husband, has better insights and knowledge on war and is more courageous compared to the male counterpart. Every time the king’s stupidity lands the country in trouble, Padmavati’s sensibility saves the nation from the clutches of the villain.


The grandeur, the costumes, the dialogs, the opulence presents the efforts of the makers into it. The major reason behind why you shouldn’t miss this movie is for Ranveer Singh. Ranveer Singh is portrayed as a tyrant and a merciless savage. His barbaric image, his obsession to conquer Rani Padmavati, his crave for power and flesh, the way he extracts pleasure from cries of pain, the way lust, shrewdness and cunningness oozes out of his performance is mind blowing.  His performance ensures that eyes do not get off him. I loved the villain more than the hero and that couldn’t have been possible if it wasn’t Singh’s outstanding acting skills. No one could have done justice to this role as Ranveer has done. The scene in which a Rajput soldier keeps on fighting even after having his head cut off gave me chills.

The thing that weighs down the movie for me is Shahid’s shaky performance and the leaking love story in between Rani Padmavati and Raja Rawal Rattan Singh. Compared to other Bhansali films of the past it isn't as emotionally touching. The love between Deepika and Shahid wasn’t as fierce as the enmity between Ranveer and Deepika.

The betrayal of Raja Rattan Singh to his first wife is glorified and is considered to be romantic while that of Allaudin is condemned which clearly presents the hypocrisy of the then society. One of the most disturbing scenes (practice of jauhar ) for me was to see pregnant women and children jumping into fire when Padmavati kills herself along with all the females  to protect themselves from being raped by the rival army after defeat. I was angry when Deepika had to take permission before committing the so called suicide and how easily the king agreed on it.  But realizing it to be just a snapshot of that period, I hold my aggression towards this practice for a while (though I hate how the men at that time considered their wives to be a mere possession and didn’t want them to marry with anyone else after their death).

If I had to rate the movie it would be three on five. I would love to listen to your reviews after you have watched it. Good day!



Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Journey behind the passport stamps



We travel not to escape from life but to not let life escape from us. Whoever said that (not me) was completely right. I was leaving Dashain, maasuko parikar (khasiko choila, fried khasi, saadheko achaar, khasiko jhol, Bhutan, hyakula) and dakshina to travel so the journey had to be worth it.  After a tiresome journey we landed in Singapore “the Lion city”. Spotless clean roads guarded with bougainvillea hedges, the roads of Singapore from the airport into the city  itself were very pretty.

Exhausted by the journey my parents chose to rest but we sisters filled with curiosity had promised ourselves to walk till our feet hurt as we wouldn’t get the chance again. We walked for ten minutes and then reached Little India. From fresh flowers to dream catchers, from Diwali decorations to mithaais from Bikaner you could get everything at one place. The aroma of the mithaais and fresh flowers, the reflection of sparkling mirror handworks, Hindi tracks from various cities, foreigners buying Rajasthani handicrafts and children nagging for mithaais made the place livelier. As soon as we got out of the market there were almost 50 light arches giving the city a view like Navaratri hit Calcutta. From the extensive arrays of restaurant we chose an Indian restaurant nearby. The waiter smiled with freshly prepared biryani, raaita, greasy curries and sambar on banana leaf adding an Indian vibe to it. We ate till we looked three months pregnant.


Courtesy: Shraddha Suman Silwal



The best part of Singapore was the religious tolerance. There were mosques, churches and temples right next to each other and so were places to booze where people were clinking their beer jars but all of the people respected the differences and were living harmoniously.

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Along with our parents our very first destination was garden by the bay, a seaside botanical garden. The park that boasts of more than one million plants had various segments but we chose to visit cloud world and flower dome. With carved pumpkins, vibrant lights, statues and flowers, flower dome was quite clean and funky, but it didn’t touch my heart. (Have I become old?)




We then entered the cloud forest. Veiled in mist the mountain got colder and better as we climbed higher. After ten minutes of walking we reached the top and the view from that point was mesmerizing.


The alarm rang and it was next day, my ears which would never hear the beeps of alarm in other days perfectly functioned that day. Firstly we headed towards fountain of wealth in Suntec city. Largest fountain in the world, fountain of wealth was the place where the movie Krish was shot. Every time I struck a pose for photos I could feel the water droplets from the fountain on my body.

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Without sharing the whereabouts our guide took us to place which according to him we couldn’t afford to miss. When we arrived, we were standing in front of the Merlion. Merlion, a mythical creature with a lion's head and the body of a fish was definitely one of the most popular places of Singapore and was heavily crowded with thousands of people waiting to click pictures there. (my experience of rushing to take photos did work finally)


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Just nearby the Merlion was the Singapore flyer. With glimpse of neighboring islands of Malaysia and Indonesia one could get a 360° view of Singapore. Slow and steady, the wheel did get dull at times and was a bit expensive.but overall it was beautiful. As I am a night person after looking at the day view I think it would have been better had we got the opportunity to ride on it at night as we would get a glittering.

A picture of the flyer which I took from the gardens by the bay

We then headed towards Sentosa Island. We had a concrete time plan so we rushed towards Madamme Tussauds. I would have loved it more had there been real people instead of wax statues (I mean who wouldn’t) but clicking pictures with the wax statues and learning the process of preparation of each one was interesting.


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We then headed to a 4 D movie building, which basically wasn’t a movie but there were actors delivering the history. I was shocked to know that Singapore had such a short history yet was so developed. Then I compared the timelines we read in social studies with the movie they used to teach history. It was crystal clear why Singapore is so developed and Nepal isn’t.

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At the end we went to watch the wings of time. Set in an open sea with nature as the screen, wings of time is an outdoor night show with a delicious fusion of water fountain, multimedia effects, laser lights, fire effects, entertaining music and a story. It is definitely a night extravaganza.


As I love lights visiting all the places I mentioned above would have been better at night time as the beauty of these places came into full effect. But nevertheless Singapore is definitely a place to visit and if you eat in places like Little India it isn’t that expensive too as it is described to be.


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The last day and the best one, visit to Universal Studios was a highlight in our Singapore tour. Located in Sentosa Island, universal studios is a world-class theme park and a glamorous world of movies. Every spot was begging to click a picture with it. The decor for each section was very striking. Six hours wasn’t enough for us as the studio had whopping list of entertaining activities. Thus if you are planning to visit this place any day it’s better to purchase an express pass. The express pass is worth the extra cost as it saves your day. As the studio closed by 6 p.m we missed few activities but we managed to have thrill rides of transformers, Jurassic rapids. Each themed activity had matching shops and 'inspired' food stores. It was a thoroughly fun day out with something suitable for all ages. It brought out the child in me. Let alone me, even my parents were also enjoying the games. This is definitely a place that I  will  take my children along in the future . That ended my trip in Singapore.


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Malaysia

Our second destination was Langkawi. As soon as I landed in Langkawi it gave me a Terai feel. I have never loved hot climate and getting grilled again was very painful. We had a very short trip planned in this place and I was happy about that. The toughest thing for me there was finding food as I am allergic to sea food. With every restaurants serving sea food and exuding aroma of prawns it was hard for me to get good food options. We entered to an Indian place expecting it to be like that of Singapore but the platter was so bad that it could neither go down the food pipe nor out of my mouth.


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As soon as we woke up we had a target to hit, Langkawi Island hopping. The Langkawi Island Hopping basically takes you on a journey of four different islands to explore the lavish beauty of nature. After a refreshing motor boat ride we reached to the first venue which was a private island. We basked in the sun and swam for an hour in the sea. Pristine white sandy beach crystal clear water, the beach was indeed heavenly; I collected some shells and corals too.

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As the second venue we were taken to Pregnant Maiden Island. The entire island seemed like a sleeping lady with a baby bump. After having lunch in our hotel we went for a boat ride to mangrove area. With roots above the land, the mangroves were worth visiting. The entire package included visiting bat cave and crocodile cave too which wasn’t that wonderful for me. Then we headed towards fish farm which was pretty amazing.




The experience of feeding sting ray with bare hands, playing with small fishes and touching spiny puffer fish felt incredible. As soon as the boat rider dropped chicken on the river the golden eagles that had been swooping high in the sky in the wild came to eat it. That was definitely a wonderful view.

The other places we went weren’t that beautiful and I was highly disappointed by Langkawi. I felt this area to be pretty hyped. Nevertheless the beaches were beautiful.


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Bali


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Finally we reached to our third destination Bali. Bali is indeed a perfect destination for a romantic getaway. The land of temples and graffiti, every nook and cranny of Bali is filled with art and you can feel the artistic vibe. Even the airport seemed like a temple. With 21 thousand temples on the island and every house with similar structure like that of temple, it felt like I was lost in a durbar square but one that was a hundred times bigger.


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We went to Uluwatu temple first. Very different from the conventional temples, this one has a captivating beauty and is very picturesque. Everything here is beautiful beyond words; the only thing you should be careful about is the monkeys. Popular for their aggression, one of the monkeys stole my mother’s spectacles and returned it back when it was offered food. Crazy right? Even monkeys in Bali trade.


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Next day, As soon as we picked up some food we rushed towards watching barong dance. The dance presenting the eternal battle between good and evil wasn’t fun at all. With catalog impossible to interpret and act hard to understand the dance was pretty disappointing. I would never recommend this to any Nepali as our very own laakhe dance is way better than it.


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After the dance we went to Kinataamani Volcanic Mountain. As there wasn’t a single place from which we could observe the mountain and a lake below so we went to a halaal cafe nearby. Eating with a splendid view, cold breeze playing with my hair did cheer me up.


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As we had enough of free time we hopped into Starbucks.  As usual Starbucks had  warm ambience and friendly staff but the difference that day was the menu. Pink coffees were also served to raise voice against women violence. We ordered two of them. One was too sweet for my taste while the other one was just fine. We sisters grabbed our coffees and started walking again.



It had been two days that we had come to Baali and there wasn’t a single alley where we weren’t invited for a massage. Thus we made up our minds to pamper our feet and have a fish spa. The staff of the massage center washed our legs and then we dipped our legs in the tank. As soon as we dipped our legs, the fishes swam swiftly towards our feet and started devouring the dead cells. My sister enjoyed it more as there were plenty of fishes around her feet (she definitely needs to clean her legs pretty often :P) How did I feel? Ticklish and soothing. Soothing as the water was pretty cool and ticklish well 70 fishes kissing ones legs is ticklish. Our legs became softer and looked nice but for a while only.
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As soon as we had our Indonesian breakfast we drove toward Tanah lot. A Balinese coastal temple situated on a rocky mountain with black rocks the temple had a charm of its own.

Finally we were taken for a cruise dinner. The cruise didn’t meet my previous experience in Seattle but the entertainment activities were fun. The wind, the sceneries and the food were dull comparing to Seattle but nevertheless the cultural dance, musical performance and magic was fun.

Overall the journey was perfect. The only suggestion I have to give if you are planning to visit Baali is be aware of the guides there. I ain’t saying because we met one guide but after talking with other Nepalese families they had similar experiences.

What did I come back with? Tanned skin, a tad of fats, bucket full of memories and a completely freshened body.



Tuesday, August 15, 2017

PINK Mocking hypocrisy like never before




I got my hands into Pink exactly after one year of it’s release and I am happy that it happened. I loved the movie for the fact that it perfectly portrays a misogynist society where the stereotypical norms and prejudice only shackles women. Pink was a surprising exception among the movies crossing hundred crores with five songs, few kissing scenes, humor, a bit of Bollywood masaala and well known celebrities. Gripping from the start to end, Pink is a courtroom drama revolving around the lives of three working women who stay in South Delhi and are flat mates.

Summing the movie in short, three women go to a rock show and have dinner with newly met friends. Unfortunately the evening takes an ugly turn for them after a couple of drinks. Rajveer molests Meenal and as a step of self-protection she hits Rajveer on the head, injuring his eye. These girls lose their smiles and peace of mind but when nothing pops up for three days they believe the story has ended. Rajveer who cannot believe he nearly lost an eye because a woman hit him decides to seek vengeance on them. The three women are subjected to constant threats, intimidation and harassment from Rajveer and his friends. Meenal is abducted and terrorized, Meenal's roommate Falak loses her job because of morphed pictures of her on a porn site, Andria is sent threatening messages on phone and their amiable landlord is threatened with harm until he evicts the girls. The boys lay siege and do their best to break the women into submission.  The guys malign and intimidate them in every way possible but when it doesn’t work Rajveer uses his powerful connections to file a wrong FIR against the girls labeling them prostitutes. When no lawyer is ready to fight their case, the creepy neighbor suffering from bipolar disorder comes to their rescue. As the case unfolds we can see the deep set prejudice of the society. Prosecutor tries to break them down by trying to prove all three to be promiscuous. Meenal is asked scathing questions. Prying neighbors build the women’s character on crazy speculations and blame them. Even a woman investigative officer forgets her womanhood and helps the wrong ones in their ill motives. Police disapproves to lodge a complaint just because the perpetrator is from an influential household. But with the help of the lawyer, the women triumph over the odds and like a phoenix they rise from ashes.

The movie clearly lays bare the double standards of the society we live in where women who drink are believed to be characterless but alcohol consumption for male is considered just a health hazard. Being feisty and frank for woman is considered to giving hints for sexual approach but for men it is considered to being friendly. It’s fine for men to live independently in a city but not for a woman as it confuses men. It’s okay for men to visit their female friends in their flats but a woman will be judged for bringing a man to her flat. If a woman has a sexual history she is of questionable character but a man’s isn’t a questionable matter though it needs two to tango.

It mocks the society where the ticks of the clock and venue determine a woman’s character. A woman is believed to be giving hints if she is present in rock show but she is believed to be from a decent household if she is found in a library or a temple. Where character assassination and slut shaming is all it needs to break a girl down. It beautifully pictures our society where men and women are judged by a different moral yardstick and ridicules people who assume that if a woman is willingly roaming around with a man then he has the license to touch her. It presents the hollow mentality of men which believes a girl who is ready to drink with them would have no problem to sleep with them either.




Acting of all the characters are so convincing and top notch that you start hating the prosecutor every time he trashes the female character and tries to modify truth for his profit, you start hating the male characters every moment  they pass a sexist comment. The anxiety, frustrations and angst of the three flat mates is so realistic that you start to see yourself in their shoes.  Even in his seventies Amitabh Bacchan wows the audience by his magnetic and prolific acting. The hard hitting dialogues which embarrass and enlighten you at the same time, well fleshed story and the acting makes the movie worth a watch. The movie perfectly establishes the fact that when a girl says no to being touched, then no man has the right to force himself on her whether a woman is a sex-worker, wife or slave. No isn’t a word but it is itself a sentence which needs no logic clarification or explanation.

Pink is a powerful statement on the existing feudal mindset of a majority of India. Though set in Delhi the movie was quite contextual and relateable. The concept was nothing new and I have been feeling it as a Nepali woman too yet it gave me goose bumps. A very single plot conveys so heavy message with such an ease that it demands for appreciation. Pink is definitely worth a watch.