The rattling that
shook the whole nation has shaken our mindset even harder. Scientists claim
that the clash of the Indian and the Eurasian plates gave birth to the massive
earthquake while some people state that it is due to god Shivaa's leela.
Whatever the reason is the fact is that the 7.9 magnitude jolt shook the
country and has left thousands dead and many more injured. Places that once
were homes are now nothing more than piles of rubble and sites for mass
graveyard. Dead bodies have still been left unattended and people have lost
hope of finding any belongings in a usable state. It feels like we have been
engulfed into darkness and in every lightning corpses are produced.
Some are fortunate
enough that even today their houses in which they live are intact and
habitable. However there are thousands who have become homeless and are forced
to live in open regardless of the harsh weather. Thus in order to provide a
helping hand to those we made a focal point: to help children. UN estimates
that more than 1 million children are affected by the recent earthquake and
these problems should be addressed as soon as possible. In order to assess the
impacts we went to Kavre, Sindupalchok, Dhading and Kathmandu. The assessment
in Dhading was easier due to abundance in stationery and the guidance of
psychologist Ganga Pathak.
While in Kathmandu
we are still conducting daily observation of the children. When asked to draw
cracked buildings, injured people ,hospitals and black Dharara were all they
could come up with, portraying their mindset which has been heavily disturbed
by earthquake. Some children tightly clung to their parents with every minor
aftershocks while some never let tears off their eyes, some had become
claustrophobic and insomniac while some never let their parents off their
sight. According to the parents the children under tarpaulins had lost their
appetite and refused to return to their homes even after a week of the quake
and would just gaze away.
After reaching to
the disaster zones it could be analyzed that the places which gained attention
wanes were mounted and piled up with relief materials and funds while others
who were equally hit by the quake were empty handed. From the numerous field
visits it could be concluded that children from the villages were in a better
mental state compared to that of city. .Some of the reasons behind are:
1) Free space:
Unplanned urbanization and few open spaces compel people into crowded
situations with unknown people making the children feel uneasy to move around.
False rumors quickly spread in such places further contributing to fear and the
terror.
2) Media: With the
media outlets concentrated in the city, the children are quickly exposed to the
depressing news of deaths and injuries further traumatizing them.
3) No means of
distraction: Usually in the village areas the children are engaged in something
or other. They have to look after the livestock and commit to household chores.
But it’s not so for the urban area. Closed entertainment centers, schools, malls
and no proper access to technology has further worsened the situation making it
hard for them to open up.
In "Child
friendly Spaces" a program organized by UNICEF, World Education foundation
and CWISH I as a teacher found the students confined to themselves in the
initial phase. With the days that passed by, games, dance, activities and story
books gradually returned them to their normal self. Taking a glance at the
children's situation they are in dire need of motivation, counseling and
psychological treatment. Some may be able to cope up and heal with time while
for those who are deeply affected by the quake must go under creative
expression therapies, counseling and various other therapies under expert
guidance
Children are raw and
immature to the immensity of the devastation and problems. Children have a lot
to learn and are very sensitive to situations and being so imagine the trauma
and wound inflicted upon the minds of innocence and compassion. If the problems
are not addressed immediately then it might leave them scarred for life.
Very nice job (y)
ReplyDeleteI could see the children feel comfortable and open towards you as soon as you started interacting with them. That is very good as it means that they trust you and feel safe with you.
Child psychology is a very hard thing to understand and you did it very easily.. I thank you for that and congratulate you..
Thank you so much for the appreciation! It meant alot!
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