A modern love letter

Dear love,

I don’t know how long will this letter take to reach you but whenever it does I believe it will be the right time. And yes I miss you a lot even though I don’t know who you are.

By the time we meet maybe you would have dated a lot of girls. But it wouldn’t bother me at all if “US” would be the last one. On the contrary I would be happy for I know dating girls isn’t easy these days. I wouldn’t bring your past in the present and future and hope you don't do it either. I hope we both work on making our present brighter than our past.

See I would love if I could go out with you every day, but I know it's not feasible. Thus whenever we really go out I hope your phone and your Wi-Fi both are off. I will definitely support you if you have professional problems but I hope we push it away when we are spending our “WE” time.

I want a love which consumes me, but does not make you blind to the fact that we have our world outside the bond we share.

I hope you don’t demand for respect because of your sex but on the basis of how you behave.

If you want a baby boo who calls you every next hour, asks what you are doing and asks if you have eaten or not I am definitely not  the right person. We are adults and we should give each other our personal space. But if it’s about your wellbeing or mine, I hope we are together in it.

See, however hard we try not to develop expectation we tend to have some. At times you break them too. In those times I hope you man up and console me and cheer me up. You don’t become small when you do that. I will do my job if it’s my mistake.

If things don’t go right drifting apart will be the right option but if it does and ends in marriage that would be perfect.

World says marriage is tough; it’s a trap and another name for compromise. How can such a beautiful bond be so if you have a person to share all your pleasure and pain along with you? Obviously life wouldn’t be same but why not work on making it better? Why not make this bond equal for both where our rights and responsibilities would be same. Where our in laws wouldn’t be saasus and sasuras, but our parents. When I say that I mean mine too.

I want a guy who works hard, is successful and independent just like I want me to be. I can’t stand if you do nothing and I do everything. It might make me the queen of the home but I don’t want to be that queen. I want us to build our own empire for that's  what our children would be looking up to. Every time people tell you that I am better I want you to smile just like I would if somebody would say so.

I know these are very small things which usually all normal couples do. But I also know these are the things if not fulfilled  brings hurricane.

With love,
Your love.